Make sure you listen to people’s advice. Doing this throughout the planning process meant nothing eludeds you. Once you have made a decision on something, stick to it. Sometimes, the longer you have to plan, the more confusing it can become. Trust your gut. If you are not sure about a detail or wedding supplier continue looking. You don’t have to decide immediately. – try to do everything yourself like I did. Paying a little extra for help such as with producing the stationery, saves stress in the long run. Finding a venue with fantastic service will help you immensely on the day. If you’re thinking of forgoing a videographer – dont. If there is something that you want for your special day but are struggling to find it, don’t be afraid to ask. Most suppliers are open to suggestion – and happy to accommodate special requests for less expense than you might expect Invest in a wedding photographer who understands your vision and vibe. It’s worth spending a bit extra as these are memories you will keep forever.